i'm so exhausted right now. not because of the time of the day.....i just had an okay hard conversation with one. we both got exhausted of all the chatting, but we solved the problem. and that has really relieved my heart and my mind. it's so good to have it out of the world. and i've also learned something during this conversation....the best way you can avoid problems like these is to tell the person when you think the person has done something wrong which hurt you. just go direct to the person (nomatter who it is) and tell if you have a problem. on that way you avoid the problem to grow bigger and confused.